May 17 marks International Day against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia (IDAHOBIT) and this years theme is “At the heart of democracy”. We stand at time when democracy seems to be compromised globally, whether through the politics that govern us or through the action of powerful individuals and corporations. This days origin takes us back to 1990 when the World Health Organisation declassified homosexuality as a mental disorder. Unfortunately, our access to information and technology continues to act as a double-edged sword with the rise of anti-LGBTIQs content and views. There are many in society that continue to have such thoughts about LGBTIQ+ people.
The continuous rise of male creators that actively spread misogyny directly impacts the LGBTIQ+ community. We are seeing the ripples right here in Nepal where a lot of young men consume these content. The battle is not just overseas but continues with arts, culture and society here. While laws and legislation seem to be moving at a pace, our society is failing to catch up.
It was recently announced that “gender and sexual minorities” will be explicitly included in the title of a ministry in Nepal. The new nomenclature today reads “Ministry of Women, Children, Gender and Sexual Minorities and Social Security”. The Blue Diamond Society welcomed this announcement with a press note. This year also saw the inclusion of Nepal’s very first transgender member of parliament with Bhumika Shrestha. Bhumika’s seat in the parliament is very well deserved. I am inspired by the transgender, lesbian, bisexual and queer women, I find that their bravery and strength is what has pushed Nepal’s queer rights.
Living in Nepal for three+ years, I feel disappointed to not see more gay men in the space of LGBTIQ+ awareness and advocacy. The handful there are, are doing what they can but I know there are more – who have means, access, quality education and also financial independence. It is these men that I would have expected to do more… While coming out and publicly holding a microphone may not be everyone’s style, we can definitely shape our own communities to be inclusive, to create more safe spaces and celebrate Pride.
I hope that LGBTQ allies continue to speak for us when we are not there, to be there for us and to join us in moments of celebration.
On this Sunday, May 17, I am resharing a previous post from 2018 when I launched a small collection of PRIDE themed t-shirts to celebrate International Day against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia and Pride month.
