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An Escape To The Pipal Tree – Mountain Villa in Pokhara

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The Pipal Tree, a mountain villa resting on the Methlang hills joins a small but growing number of luxury properties in the lake city Pokhara! The striking design of the villa is sure to attract those that like a unique getaway. At The Pipal Tree you can enjoy stunning views of the Annapurna mountain range, Sarangkot, Phewa Taal and Pokhara city! With two bedrooms and an open attic, the villa sleeps six people; making it an ideal escape for families and small groups.

Photo by The Pipal Tree

Having had the pleasure of spending a night at The Pipal Tree, I cannot recommend it more. If you are after a quick escape or a pause then this villa is ideal. It’s only a 20-25 minute drive from Lakeside, so for those with #FOMO you can still revel in all that Lakeside has to offer and get a taxi back to the villa. An early morning dip in the infinity pool overlooking the mountains – what a luxury!

The villa comes with an open plan lounge, dining and fully stocked kitchenette. Whether you prefer to order or cook-in, you have both the options. For those with electric vehicles, you can even charge your EV!

My friends reading the all-important villa rules and guide 😀

I look forward to staying again in summer! Though monsoon season is not ideal for travel, I think it will be pretty spectacular to have a relaxing indoor day watching the rain and clouds from The Pipal Tree’s floor-to-ceiling windows. During my stay, I watched Leaving The World Behind which is a film about a family ‘stuck’ in a villa as the world comes to an end… quite amusing and eerie. Well there’s swimming during the monsoon rains to look forward to later in 2023, now that has its own charm!

Here’s an Instagram Reel I made from my stay 🙂

Visit The Pipal Tree website to learn more or to make bookings. You can also find the villa on AIRBNB.

Disclaimer: This is a promotional post written with the intent to advertise The Pipal Tree – Mountain Villa Pokhara. #Promo #Ads  

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Reflecting on 100 Years of 1923 Nepal-UK Treaty

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Today marks 100 years since the signing of the 1923 Nepal-Britain Treaty at the Belayati Baithak, Singha Durbar. This treaty, which I came to learn about only very recently is believed to have played a significant role in recognising Nepal as a sovereign and independent nation by Britain, one of the biggest powers then. Furthermore, experts believe that the treaty was only possible after the Prime Minister of the time, Chandra Shumsher Jung Bahadur Rana, strategically started the conversations following the important role played by Gorkha soldiers in the first World War.

As I reflect on this important history and the role that the Gorkha/Gurkha soldiers have played, or have been made to play, I wanted to take a moment to reflect on Nepal-UK relations. Growing up as a son of a Gurkha, I have spent the past twenty-three years in the UK. I have also followed my father to his postings in Brunei in my early childhood and the British Gurkhas base in Pokhara. I believe there’s a lot of work ahead as we look forward to the next 100 years of Nepal-UK relations.

The UK Nepali community, diaspora, that I am privileged to be part of has grown exponentially following the settlement rights received by British Gurkhas in 2004 and 2009. As a blogger with strong network to many Nepali community and professional organisations, I am very pleased to see the first-generation Nepalis excelling in a range of sectors… we have icons such as Santosh Shah in the food world, the mountain man Nims Purja, rising professional footballers Asmita Ale, Kiban Rai, Bivesh Gurung to name a few, Olympic swimmer Gaurika Singh, the first Asian contestant in UK’s reality show Love Island Ruchee Gurung, actors Amita Suman, Amrita Acharia; and many more individuals who are introducing Nepal in their own ways. It’s impressive to see former Gurkhas take the leap in their civilian lives as they venture into UK politics, real estate, and hospitality! Today, many academics and historians in Nepal may be discussing the long 100 years of Nepal-UK treaty but I personally feel that our growing Nepali community in the UK is one that is much younger but one that is seeing a lot of change and progress in a short amount of time.

The deep admiration and respect towards the Gurkhas by the general British public is something to take note of. Our people to people relations have helped us repeatedly. The British public and the media’s overwhelming support to the Gurkha Justice campaign in the early 2000’s and right now has not gone unnoticed. Following the 2015 Nepal earthquake, the emergency appeal launched by the DEC (Disasters Emergency Committee) in the UK raised a massive £87 million, making it among the highest for an emergency appeal at that time. More recently, as part of the Covid Alliance for Nepal – UK, we were overwhelmed by the support we once again received from the British public and celebrities including Sir Michael Palin, explorer Ben Fogle, actress Joanna Lumley as we worked to call the UK government to urgently respond to the Covid19 crisis in Nepal.

Times have certainly changed since 1923, therefore we must do more to strengthen these ties, people to people and Government to Government. The friendship between our two countries is a historic one that has lasted generations but today, we are failing to pass on this rich history at all levels.

In my view, we have so much to still do in the world of arts, education, music and culture. This needs to continue bridging the two nations. While we do this, we must ensure that we make effort to make the spaces we create inclusive; have voices from people of diverse backgrounds, language, ethnicity and lived experience.

As first generation Nepalis in the UK, many of us have felt the pressure to represent Nepal whether that be through the angle of Gurkhas, mountains or religion and culture. We’ve also taken the pressure, individually and collectively as families to climb up the ladder in education, career, property ownership or blending in a British society. I have personally experienced this and observed it through Tracing Nepal, a company that I founded where NRN adults go on an experiential travel programme across Nepal. Despite growing integration in the UK, it may be a concern if future generations feel less trusting of UK due to growing awareness of ongoing Gurkha justice campaigns as well as other issues brought forward by Black, Muslim, LGBTQ+ and other minority groups in the UK.

Personally, I have gained a lot from growing up in the UK. Despite growing homophobia and transphobia, as a gay man I have learned that there is space for everyone. With the increasing amount of Nepalis from Nepal joining various professions in the UK, I hope that theirs is a journey where they are accepted and able to thrive. The past twelve months has also seen a growing number of students from Nepal choosing the UK as their place of study. It is very possible that many will go on to find and create careers, eventually basing themselves in the UK permanently. Nepal and the UK needs to think about this new group of professional Nepalis as they navigate between the two countries. With the recent announcement of the NRN Citizenship (Nagarita) by the Government of Nepal, it is very possible that the relations of the two countries will be shaped by the people who reside between the two countries. Can the two Governments work together to support a ‘Passing it forward’ programme so Nepal can receive expert skills and knowledge from Nepalis that have left?

The UK and Nepal need to recognise these new trends and make it easier for skills transfer between the two nations so we can create an innovative future together. Just like how I mentioned the exemplary people earlier on, I hope we have more trailblazers from UK-Nepal and the NRN community based in Nepal in the coming days.

I hope a lot happens in the coming 100 years for the Nepal-UK relations but in the next ten years, I would like to see the two nations enjoying better connectivity, growth in tourism and trade, arrival of more UK businesses in Nepal, increased support from the UK to help Nepal navigate the ongoing climate crisis, a successful outcome to the Gurkha justice campaigns, UK Nepalis in policy making roles, existing UK based charities missions and groups to work in Nepal with more nuance, respect and understanding, for life-changing volunteer programmes like the UK Governments International Citizens Programme (soon to be relaunched) to be a bigger partner of Nepal and finally, for the two nations, people and Governments – to recognise each other as true equals.


The photo was taken on Sunday, 17th December on the second day of the 1923 Nepal-UK Treaty Centenary Conference at the Yalamaya Kendra, Patan. The two day event was organised by the Madan Puraskar Pustakalay and Britain Nepal Academic Council. Pictured are H.E. Mr Rob Fenn (British Ambassador to Nepal), Sagar SJB Rana (writer and historian), Kanak Mani Dixit (Chair, MPP) and myself as we discussed ‘The Next 100 years’ as a panel.

Further Reading

Nepal-Britain Treaty of Friendship 1923 : An International Legal Perspective

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Maha Jodi UK Tour Only Days Away!

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The icons Madan Krishna and Hari Bansha, Maha Jodi, will be touring the UK very soon! The duo who are set to arrive in London on the 20th December are expected to perform their first UK date on the 23rd December at the Harrow Leisure Centre. The second date will follow on Christmas Eve, 24th Decemer at Aldershot’s Empire Hall.

The Maha Jodi who have made millions laugh, learn and been at the helm of iconic quotes will no doubt entertain the audiences in the UK and make this winter the one to remember. The Maha Jodi UK tour has been organised by UK charity The Gurkha Centre which provides health, well-being and educational support to Gurkha veterans and families through community outreach and their office based in Hayes, London.

Attendees in Harrow will receive a treat as popular singer Prakash Saput will also be joining the Maha Jodi Tour exclusively for one night only. Tickets are currently priced at £30 but not guaranteed to remain that price, so make sure you buy the ticket soon to secure that price. Seeing Maha Jodi AND Prakash Saput for only £30 – that’s huge value! There are special offers for 60+ years and students – currently at £20 only!

Bhim Tamang, Founder/Ceo of The Gurkha Centre shared that the sales generated from the two events will support The Gurkha Centre’s important works that hugely benefit the Gurkha veterans living in Hayes and the surrounding communities.

The Aldershot date for the Maha Jodi Tour will see The Voice Nepal Season 4 winner Karan Rai joining the exciting date!

Harrow – December 23 – Tickets

Aldershot – December 24 – Tickets

Red Bull – Now Produced in Nepal

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When I received the invitation to attend the launch of Red Bull in Nepal, I was left wondering. Why would a global brand like Red Bull need a launch event? It was only after I read the news that I discovered that the launch event celebrates the production of Red Bull in Nepal! Now that is quite major and arguably, a good thing for the country.

We’ll have to wait a while to see what the production of the ‘real’ Red Bull will do to many local counterfeit products like Red Blue and Red Up. Red Bull, the real one, will now be produced and shipped from its Nepal factory in Nawalpur. According to Red Bull, Nepal now becomes the fourth country to produce the golden/yellow Red Bull after Thailand, Vietnam and China.

The factory in Nawalpur was formally inaugurated by Finance Minister Prakash Sharan Mahat. According to Mahat, the Government’s ban on import of energy drinks is what brought the production of Red Bull in Nepal. The ban which was imposed in 2019 left many questioning the rationale. While some reports suggest it was the Government’s worry over the health risk posed by energy drinks, the European Commission suggests it may have been to curb the trade deficit of the Government.

Whatever the reason of the import ban, it looks like Red Bull has well and truly arrived in Nepal courtesy of Khetan Group’s investment via Saras Beverages. The launch event at the Radisson Hotel Kathmandu on Tuesday evening saw flowing Red Bull mocktails, performance by Kiran Nepali x Deepson and a very energetic dance performance by the Wild Ripperz Crew. Maybe after a can or two of Red Bull!

Photo: BecomingSanjay

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What Surendra Pandey and Maya Gurung’s Marriage Means for Nepal’s LGBTIQ+ Community

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Photo: AP Photo/Niranjan Shrestha
Photo: AP Photo/Niranjan Shrestha

After facing setbacks from several district courts, Surendra Pandey and Maya Gurung have finally had their marriage legally recognized. The couple are currently on a celebration spree with their family, friends and the many who fought for them. “It’s a win for the LGBTQ+ population and the movement” says Surendra Pandey and Maya Gurung on the recent episode of ON AIR WITH SANJAY podcast.

While news of their marriage has generated headlines globally, labelled as the “First same-sex married couple in Nepal…”, it has ignited further discussion on whether their union can really be viewed as ‘same-sex’. Whilst the marriage registration for Surendra and Maya is a win, it is a shame that Nepal still has not allowed transgender women like Maya to change their sex assigned at birth on their official documents. If Maya was legally recognized as a woman, then this marriage would simply be one between a man and a woman. Surendra is a cisgender man.

Surendra and Maya’s fight is one that has gathered many together; helped people work towards the same goal. It has not come easy. The couple were only able to legally register their marriage from Dordi municipality in Lamjung district following the Home Ministry’ order in the last week of November that all local administration offices be allowed to register same-sex marriages.

Only the couple, who have been fighting for this right and recognition, will truly know how big of a win this is for them. Speaking to DW, Surendra shared “This registration has opened a lot of things for us, including operating a joint bank account, holding properties and adopting children in the future”.

I am very happy for the couple and wish them all the best! It is indeed a big win and move for the LGBTIQ+ community. Of course, it highlights the glaring issue of people unable to change their gender in their official documents and I hope this is something we continue fighting for. Hopefully this particular win empowers and helps gay couples on their journey to the union of marriage.

Main Photo: AP Photo/Niranjan Shrestha

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Parina Limbu Wins Kamla Bhasin Award in Delhi

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Parina Limbu received the Special Jury Award at the Kamla Bhasin Award for practicing non-traditional livelihood. Her organisation Dristi Nepal, established in 2006, is the first organisation led by women who use drugs in Nepal. Dristi Nepal works on providing capacity building and livelihood opportunities to women who use drugs, women living with HIV, single mothers and domestic violence survivors.

Limbu joins Farhan Javed Akhtar, who also received the Special Jury Award for working towards enabling gender-just ecosystem through The Real Mard. Winners of this years Kamla Bhasin Awards include Jayasree Pk who is a mason and works with Archana Women’s Centre and Mahendra Kumar who’s organisation MITRA engages men as allies for gender equality. Along with the award, Parina will receive a fellowship with iPartner India Fellowship – Honouring Change Makers.

The award winner spoke about the win to lexlimbu.com sharing “Leading an organization as a woman from a diverse and marginalized background comes with its unique set of challenges. At times, I found myself on the verge of giving up, yearning for a simpler life within my own small world. However, this recognition has infused a renewed sense of hope within me, inspiring me to continue moving forward on this challenging yet fulfilling journey.”

You can watch Parina’s part from 1hr 10min mark on the YouTube stream below.

KAMLA BHASIN AWARD – ABOUT

Kamla Bhasin (24 April 1946–25 September 2021) was born in Shahidawalli village in Gujaranwala district in Punjab. She became an icon of India’s women’s movement. Kamla co-founded Sangat, a South Asian women’s network in April 1998. She was also a co-founder of Jagori, a women’s rights NGO in India.

Kamla was a leading feminist who advocated engaging with men towards gender equality. She believed that toxic masculinity dehumanises men and she came up with the popular slogan “Men of quality are not afraid of equality”.

This award intends to honour and celebrate her lifetime of achievements. It is also meant to encourage the efforts being taken by women, men and trans persons to fight patriarchy and work towards a gender-just society where women can acquire livelihoods with dignity and gain control over their lives and bodies. This is something Kamla worked tirelessly for, apart from her other passions and commitments.

The award encompasses South Asia and includes Afghanistan, Bangladesh, Bhutan, India, Maldives, Nepal, Pakistan and Sri Lanka. Awarded winners will receive INR 100,000 (one hundred thousand Indian rupees) each. Source.

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Nepal Marks World Aids Day!

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Photo: Federation of Sexual and Gender Minorities Nepal - FSGMN

Kathmandu is marking World Aids Day with a flash-mob in the capital’s core, Basantapur. The 1st of December is observed as World Aids Day dedicated to raising awareness about AIDS (acquired immunodeficiency syndrome). HIV (human immunodeficiency virus) is a virus that attacks the body’s immune system. If HIV is not treated, it can lead to AIDS.

Flash-mob 2023 team – World Aids Day!

Today also marks the first day of Maneesh Harayeko Suchana, a play centred on an LGBTQ+ theme running at Mandala Theatre Nepal for a week. Dates and times can be found on the poster below.

National Center for AIDS and STD Control estimates that 30,000 people in Nepal are infected by HIV by the end of 2022. In Nepal, one person is infected with HIV every day, it said. People living with HIV can access anti-retroviral treatment/therapy (ART) in Nepal, consisting of a combination of HIV medicines. Whilst ART cannot cure HIV, it can help people reduce their virus count to ‘undetectable’ status. Once undetectable, the virus is ‘untransmittable’. U=U.

The best way to protect yourself from HIV is by getting tested today. There are free services such as Mero Sathi where you can get tested for HIV. You can also visit Mero Sathi to inquire about PrEP medication. PrEP is a medicine people at risk for HIV take to prevent getting HIV from sex or injection drug use. PrEP can stop HIV from taking hold and spreading throughout your body. 

Visit MeroSathi today via this link!

For more information regarding HIV/AIDS in Nepal and how to get help, please visit the blogpost below.

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Trekking Panch Pokhari Solo!

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This year I decided to go on a solo trek to Panch Pokhari. Tihar had just finished and I thought it would be the perfect time, just when people would slowly be going back to work and studies. I chose the trek for two reasons; it’s close to Kathmandu so it can be completed in a short time and it’s affordable. Having completed the trek, I stand by both reasons being very much valid. What I will say is, the trek is still a challenge. It has an unforgiving uphill climb. Panch Pokhari trek is often billed as a beginners trek and I think that is arguable. Make sure you go with an open mind and time.

I bought a one way ticket from Kathmandu to Chimmti for Nrs 650 at the Aama Hyolmo Bus Park near Narayantar Bridge (around Jorpati area) a day before I left for the trek. Your ticket comes with a seat number so if possible, ask for a seat towards the front. We departed ten minutes later than the given time of 6.20am.

DAY 1

After departing at 6.30AM from Aama Hyolmo Bus Park, I reached Chhimti at 11.30am. The bus journey was enjoyable minus a few bumps on the bus here and there. I could see the mountains quite early into the bus ride. The bus journey is a mixture of paved road and off-road driving. So expect a variety! They make a few stop for toilet breaks and to let passengers off at various points – Melamchi being a key town stop!

Once I reached Chhimti, I asked around for a lunch spot. The hotel restaurant that was serving Nepali dal bhat was packed. There was no point waiting around. I went next door and had chow-mein and then started walking straight after.

The route is straight-forward and during the time of my trek, it was average busy. Trekkers were walking in both direction so I could easily ask someone for suggestions or guidance. I had decided to reach only up to Tuppi Danda on the first day and it took me 2 hours 40 minutes to reach my destination for the day! The walk consisted of crossing a suspension bridge, seeing several streams, a water fall, walking through Deurali village and generally building up an uphill climb.

Tuppi Danda sits at a height of 2700m. There are a few hotels there and I decided to stay at Kaley Dai’s Hotel. A single bed and dinner cost me Nrs 600, a bargain! The room was small and clean, with two blankets. I had taken my own sleeping bag and liner. I was quite warm at in the evening.

Dinner, Nepali khana is simple and enough. One can pay extra and ask for sukuti as well! There were atleast 4-5 other groups at Kaley Dai’s Hotel that evening. I was the only solo trekker and fellow trekkers asked me here and there if I was alone. It was amusing to hear some people’s response, “Saathi ta hola ni haina ra?”, “Eklai pani ke ramailo ra?” were lines that were often shared. Their voice and thoughts came from a place of pity in my opinion. Lol. The last thing that I wanted was to be with friends or a group of people, especially after Dashain, Tihar, my own adventures with friends and so on. I like my own peace and company, simply that.

Total walk time: 2 hours 40 minutes

DAY 2

I woke up early at around 4am and started packing immediately. After quickly freshening up and paying Kaley Dai his fees, I started walking around 4.45am. It was dark. The stars looked beautiful. I recommend a head torch or a hand torch. It’s hard to see where you’re going or what you’re stepping on at this time of the morning. Also, you can wake up later and walk later. As I had called it a night quite early on Day 1, I simply found no reason to lay around waiting so I thought – earlier I start, earlier I’d reach my Day 2 destination – Panch Pokhari.

Walking in the dark was great! At times the noises of nature I heard made me stop. I think I was more scared of a wild animal encounter than anything paranormal or spooky. My senses were heightened, I was more alert and careful about where I was going. I think that also slowed me down. It took me an entire 5 hours to reach Nyasim Pati. I reached at 9.30am! I will also add that the final two hours of the walk was really tough. I felt my bag pulling me back. Did I mention that I carried 3 litres of water up as well…

Nyasim Pati is a small village at height of 3700m! So, that is a whopping 1000m uphill walk from Tuppi Danda. Nyasim Pati is also the last stop before Panch Pokhari. As I had left Tuppi Danda without having anything, I made sure I had a little feast at Nyasim Pati. That means, dal bhat, two mini-packets of biscuits, tea and a fruity type of juice!

Although I was on a solo trek, it did not feel extremely solo. As we’re all walking the same route up and down, you see people a good amount. There were period of hours where I was completely walking alone. In my view, Panch Pokhari is a good solo trek option – you can be alone but also you have people to join or just talk and walk with. Of course, time of the year makes a difference. I went just shortly after Tihar.

At around 10.30am, I left and made my final trek to Panch Pokhari which sits at a height of 4100m. This walk is a lot better but feels repetitive towards the final bit. Largely because you’re literally walking on the top part, side of the hill so there’s a few ‘uphill climb, followed by downhill, then uphill then downhill’. It may not make sense but that’s what it felt like. It’s entirely rocky and stony here. Whoever created these stone paths deserve a medal. It’s impressive.

I had packed a few small snacks from the ‘hotel’ at Nyasim Pati so this final walk was alright. I got a boost everytime I snacked on something. I was walking with new friends I made on the trek in the very final hour. I realised that walking with someone actually helped me walk faster (and them too). I think you keep up with them, vice versa! We reached Panch Pokhari at 2.30pm, so about 4 hours later.

I was told that there are a total of eleven hotels at Panch Pokhari. Only four were open during the night of my stay. My room here was simple, it had a single bed and a double bed. I paid Nrs 1000 for the bed and dinner.

Walking and being on the move warms the body up; get’s the body and blood flowing. Sitting around is when you quickly feel cold. I tagged along with few different people and walked to the nearby Lord Shiva temple. Later, I walked to the top of a small hill, or mound and watched the sun set. It was really beautiful! I am not a huge sunset or sunrise person but I told myself, every location offers a different view – so “MOVE LEX, DONT JUST SIT AROUND”. Glad, I did!

Total walk time: 9 hours

DAY 3

I woke up around 4am and met two fellow trekkers at 4.45am at their ‘hotel’. We had made plans to walk up to the Panch Pokhari View Point together. To cut a long story short, we missed the path to the view point and was walking uphill in the dark to find a way. It wasn’t working out for us until another group arrived. They weren’t successful either as they had followed us, oops but after a while they somehow managed to walk up. When I say this, we were walking aimlessly on a hill hoping to reach the top. So, you can imagine how steep some parts were. It was only after we got to the top and daylight was in full beam that we saw how gentle and easy it would’ve been to follow the actual path. So, Panch Pokhari Samuha (organisation) should make it a mission to add a signboard with an arrow so people don’t miss the path.

The view point which is around 4200m height is a must! It is only from this point that you will be able to see the entire Panch Pokhari, five pools of water and the Jugal Himal (mountain) range from the other side. Sunrise is beautiful but so are the sea of clouds and the rolling hills. My best photos are from this morning.

We walked back after taking several photos and seeing the sun rise. At around 7.50am, I had packed and paid. I started my downhill walk alone at 8am after only having tea.

After two hours, I reached Nyasim Pati (10am). I had two boiled eggs and tea and continued my downhill walk. I had no interest or hunger to eat dal bhat. I just wanted to get the walking done. That also means, I was mainly snacking and drinking water, juice, mountain dew and coke – where available. I only reached Tuppi Danda at around 1.50pm. It took me about 3 hours and 30 minutes. I was getting quite tired! The downhill had started becoming challenging halfway into the walk down to Tuppi Danda.

After a quick stop at Tuppi Danda, I continued the downhill walk. I started walking at 2pm and finally reached Chhimti at 5pm. Let’s just say, this final leg was a challenge. I think a stop over at Deurali is a better recommendation – so your feet can be spared the pain. I was desperate to get the walking done and out of the way hence I pushed onto to Chhimti. Once I reached Chhimti, I got myself a room for the night as all the buses (only three services a day) to Kathmandu had already left. The room with ensuite cost me Nrs 1500 and I had to pay for food on top. I was very much happy to be back to Chhimti after walking 48,000 steps (according to my phone).

Total walk time: 9 hours

The small path on the left is what you have to take to reach the view point. We missed it and walked straight (where the man with the yellow jacket is stood).

DAY 4

Depending on the time of the year it can be difficult to get a bus seat to Kathmandu. The generous hotel staff had asked for a small bag so he could keep it on the bus to ‘secure’ my seat. That’s how ticketing works! If you don’t have a kind person helping you then you basically need to wake up early and go to the bus and seize a free spot.

The bus left at 6.30am and I got to Kathmandu, just near the bus park I had left few days prior at 11.30am.


SUMMARY

Panch Pokhari Trek cost me approx Nrs 6655. The trek is popular among Nepali people. I mainly found a lot of young first-time trekkers and people that were going to the temple. When you’re alone it’s fine but depending on the flow and groups; certain times it can be noisy – especially in the hotel where everyone gathers each night. All the hotels are simple too. The uphill and downhill is not easy. So please don’t think that this is an easy trek because it’s near Kathmandu. There’s lots of beauty along the trek and of course, Panch Pokhari and the view point is the highlight.

If you’re short of time and want to really get ‘away’ then I highly recommend this trek.

RECOMMENDATIONS

  • Take water
  • Download Maps.Me app for offline maps
  • Download AlpineGuide app to see the names of the mountains and the height of where you are
  • Bus departures from Chhimti are approx 6am, 8am, 1pm.
  • Regarding toiletries and packing list – I won’t say anything. I always overpack so maybe it’s best that you read online. Pack less so it’s easier for you to carry your bag uphill.
Bus Ticket KTM – CHHIMTINRS 650
Chow Mein at CHHIMINRS 120
Fruity Juice x 2NRS 100
WaiWai and Egg – cookedNRS 100
Kaley Dai Hotel Stay + DinnerNRS 600
Nepali Khana at Everest Summit Guest HouseNRS 450
Tea, Biscuits x 2NRS 120
Panch Pokhari Hotel Stay + DinnerNRS 1000
Snacks bought at Panch PokhariNRS 100
Two boiled eggs, tea and chhurpiNRS 470
Mountain DewNRS 100
Fruity Juice x 3NRS 150
Red Bull NRS 150
Chhimti Hotel Stay, plus chowmein and two FantaNRS 1860
WaterNRS 35
Bus Ticket CHHIMIT – KTMNRS 650
GRAND TOTALNRS 6655

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Manang Beverages Joins The Nepali Wine Market!

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Actress Swastima Khadka at the launch of Manang Valley Wines

Dashain and Tihar is finally behind us! Somehow, I managed to keep this package all sealed even though it came for the festive period. This is the Manang Valley Wine by Manang Beverages. The wines that come from the Manang region are currently produced in two variations, sweet wine and semi-sweet wine.

It was all pomp and publicity at the launch of Manang Valley Wine by Manang Beverages few months earlier in September. The event which took place at SABJE LAKE, 3500 meters above sea level saw actress Swastima Khadka launch two premium apple wines. Of course there were a handful of journalists and Manang Beverages team in attendance.

The two versions of Manang Valley Wine come in sweet and semi-sweet taste and are now available across the department store in Kathmandu and beyond at Rs 1025. 

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Shinta Mani Mustang On Condé Nast Traveller Cover!

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Shinta Mani Mustang has triumphantly landed on the December cover of Condé Nast Traveller magazine. The magazine which appeals to luxury and high-end travellers featured the recently opened Shinta Mani Mustang as an Epic Escape! Shinta Mani Mustang previously appeared on CNTraveller’s “23 Best Places To Visit” list.

The 29-suite property located in Jomsom offers travellers an escape to the mountains with stunning views of the Nilgiri range. The opening of the mountain resort had been highly anticipated by tourism stakeholders in the country. A property like Shinta Mani Mustang is rare to find in the mountainous regions of Nepal but this may be the start of many.

Mustang provides travellers the opportunity to walk through the once-forbidden Kingdom, a visit to Lo Manthang and exploration of the ancient caves. The region is also home to the holy Muktinath Temple as well as picturesque villages, Marpha and Kagbeni.

Shinta Mani Mustang is the first property of Shinta Mani Hotels’ outside Cambodia. The all-inclusive experience start from USD $1,800 net per couple per night with a minimum 5-night consecutive stay. Part of the Bensley Collection the Mustang property is the remarkable collaboration of Bensley design, the orchestration of Jason Friedman and the local knowledge and years of hospitality experience of Namgyal Sherpa.

The property itself comes with a rich history! Opened as Jomsom Mountain Resort, it later went onto become Mustang Resort followed by Moksha Mustang. Shinta Mani Mustang looks brilliant!

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Blockbuster Nepali Film JAARI Is Now Online!

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The makers of JAARI are serving a Dashain and Tihar treat with the film now available on CinemaGhar APP! The blockbuster starring Dayahang Rai and Miruna Magar released earlier in 2023 and went onto become one of the highest grossing Nepali films of all time. According to the Film Development Board, Jaari recorded business of more than Rs 150 million within 21 days of release.

The film based on the Limbu tradition of ‘Jaari’ went onto screen in cinemas for over 100 days, a major achievement for a Nepali film which normally struggle to hold their screenings for even just one weekend.

Jaari is the debut film of writer/director Upendra Subba and has been produced by Ram Babu Gurung of Kabaddi fame. Unsurprisingly, Jaari proved to be a major hit among the Nepali communities overseas especially the UK.

CinemaGhar APP is available on Android TV, Amazon Fire TV, or LG TV. It costs only $1.99 to watch Jaari via the app or you can watch it for FREE with 200 CineCoins. A quick disclaimer’, this is not a promotion for CinemaGhar APP. I found Jaari to be a brilliant cinema and only hope that more people get to see this stunning film.

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Visit To The Sacred Mukkumlung – Pathibhara in Taplejung

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Traditional wooden drum "Chyabrung" that belongs to the Limbu community at the entrance of Mukkumlung Pathibhara

This is my journey to Mukkumlung Pathibhara! Mukkumlung is a place of historical importance for the Limbu people. It is a sacred site, an ancestral land for the Limbu’s. When I asked the Limbu priest there, he mentioned that in the old times Yuma Yukmaden would rest in this land on her way between Lhasa and Kashi. Since then this has become a place of spiritual and cultural significance. I believe this is in the Mundhum, the ancient folk literature and the world view of Yakthung (Limbu) people.

The journey to Mukkumlung saw us travel all the way to Phungling, the district HQ of Taplejung. From there were took another vehicle up to Kafle Pati, the last point of road access. Its common for people to spend the night at Thulo Phedi and then start their uphill walk to Mukkumlung Pathibhara early in the morning. We actually decided to spend the night at Kafle Pati and only start the walk the next morning. We set off around 3.45am in the dark and I also saw a shooting star – first time ever! It felt surreal but I also thought, damn, 31 years of living and I’ve only seen a shooting star now?

It took us about 3 hours 30 minutes to reach the top. Do take breaks and enjoy the view as you go up! We were lucky to see mountains and the pahads (hills) that surrounded us.

Today, Pathibhara Devi Temple, established at the top alongside the Limbu temple has become an important pilgrimage destination for Hindu devotees. The growth of Hindu religion and culture has resulted in the area being known simply by Pathibhara. Donations from devotees that come from near and far has helped the Mukkumlung Pathibhara darshan area with better facilities and improved walkways over the years.

The area continues to be a place that needs further research and awareness in order to avoid the loss of history by a dominant religion and culture. Scholars and experts with a focus on Limbu, Kirati heritage continue to unearth knowledge that is helping people understand the rich heritage of the land.

Similarly, there has been a pushback on the plans to construct Pathibhara Cable Car. The pushback comes from a coalition of groups and all for different reasons, from environment/land use and protection, naming of the cable car Mukkumlung vs Pathibhara and groups that simply believe that a cable car is not necessary for the area.

Personally, I enjoyed the trek up from Kafle Pati to Mukkumlung Pathibhara. Seeing signboards that had “Welcome to Mukkumlung” was great. Unfortunately, there just was not enough historical information regarding what is Mukkumlung; why it is Mukkumlung. Today, majority (Limbu people included) go there to worship Pathibhara Devi mata and unless we are curious or question, we will continue this ongoing process of assimilation and agreeing to the dominant religion, culture, language and customs. We can follow who we want, it is in our right but it is equally important to recognise history and ensure there’s space for stories of indigenous peoples way of life, customs and culture.

It is good to see the struggle committee’s not backing down against wealthy corporations and well networked-individuals. I am a believer that history and the present can work together, that we can meet in the middle so we create space for the demands of Limbu people, the Taplejung Phungling community’ and also find ways to ensure that Mukkumlung Pathibhara becomes an accessible destination for those that want to make the pilgrimage.

Seeing examples of Mt Snowdon in Wales (UK) going back to its historic Welsh name Yr Wyddfa is an example that it is very much possible.

ANTAR – Coming of age story of a Nepali gay man

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They say that people learn who they are by the images of themselves, by seeing fellows that share similar identities to them. I believe this is exactly one reason why it’s so important to have representation that instil hope and are positive.

On July 15th, I attended the book launch of Ramesh Sayan’s ANTAR in Kathmandu. His latest book ANTAR is a coming-of-age story that follows Shabda’s journey from high-school to pursuing his higher studies in Kathmandu. This is that period in life for many where they navigate school, relationships, parents, passion; Shabda is no different. His journey just happens to see him discovering his sexuality; his slow realisation that he is indeed physically and emotionally attracted to men and not women. Of course, things at this age are never clear as water.

Many gay boys and men have been in that journey… the phase of “going with the flow”, phase of having a girlfriend just to make sure questions don’t pop up constantly from friends. Shabda is no different. Similarly, Shabda is also no different to the many people who are challenged by their self-discovery.

When I was informed about the book and theme that it revolved around, I informed the publisher that I would only attend the launch if I actually liked it. Though the beginning is slow to start off with, I enjoyed reading about Shabda’s growth as a person and him navigating between Aman and Anuja. For some of us, that pull between the two genders at that age is something very relatable. Writer Sayan does this very well.

The powerful ending of the book, the image that Shabda presents to the world is where I saw myself. It is the type of representation I hope we put out more in society, whether through mediums of books, films or music. The final chapter made it easy for me to say ‘yes’ to the book launch. The reality for many maybe tough and that deserves space too; to bring the nuances of why it’s tough being gay, or coming from an LGBTIQ+ population – why there is vast difference in experience within the LGBTIQ+ population. Equally, it’s important to have powerful characters and representation in books and films too!

We are not just someone teased at constantly with no agency or command. That can be part of our journey but our characters also deserve a triumphant end where they unlock the next stage, win that award or simply be an ordinary gay guy who is finally happy to have chosen himself and his happiness. That sometimes is enough.

ANTAR is out now!

In conversation with media personality, host, Rupesh Shrestha

Meet Nina Gurung – Mayor of Medway in the UK

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Nina Gurung was elected to be the Mayor of Medway earlier in 2023. This exciting new role also makes her the first Nepali woman to hold the Mayor position in the UK. Nina was elected as the new Mayor of Medway on May 24th this year. Gurung comes from a British Gurkha background and has been an active member of the Gurkha Nepalese Community Medway, Buddhist Community Centre UK alongside a number of Medway based charities.

Her research on the settlement of Gurkha families and their integration process in the UK was a ‘moment’ for the UK Nepali community. The research was widely picked up by several publications including national TV, playing an instrumental role in promoting community cohesion. Nina is also the Labour and Co-operative Councillor for Chatham Central & Brompton.

Mayor Gurung said “I am honoured to have been elected Mayor of Medway. I hope that my journey from very humble beginnings to this stage will inspire everyone in Medway to never give up, to always be kind, non-judgmental, to try and surround themselves with positive people, and always serve our communities selflessly. I am looking forward to representing Medway at a wide variety of events over the next year as well as meeting residents.”

Well file this post under “better late than never”. I felt it important for me to share this to showcase the wonderful actions of fellow UK Nepalis. We’re definitely reaching, getting things done and taking our rich stories with us – of being a Nepali, coming from a British Gurkha heritage, having multiple tongues, juggling families/children, responsibilities that the East and the West have given – like Nina! She’s a doer and an inspiration regardless of her gender but knowing that she comes from a Gurkha community, is the daughter of Gurkha parents, wife to a Gurkha and has children – makes it even more inspiring!

Wishing her the best for her time!

Heritage Homes of Thapagaun in Muga Dhankuta

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A home in Thapagaun, Muga (Dhankuta)

Muga in Dhankuta is a historic village with many stories. Thapagaun in Muga happens to be the ancestral village of the late five-times Prime Minister Surya Bahadur Thapa. The Thapa’s who hail from Muga have a rich history, traditions and customs that they work hard to continue today. A visit to Muga was an instant ‘yes’ from me! After all, I am always fascinated by people’s origin and where they come from.

Talking about the Thapa’s in Muga, I’ve been told that they also moved to the area from the Western corners of Nepal. Seetashma shared that the Thapa’s who made Muga their homes initially came from Jumla following orders from Prithvi Narayan Shah to expand the Gorkhali state. These are stories from a complete different time; much has changed since.

The drive to Muga was long and bumpy but the sight of the historic Thapagaun homes were a gift. It was nothing like the villages I had seen before. I am more accustomed to seeing mud built two storey properties but these homes, they were modern-day villas and mansions even palaces in their own right. According to an article by Nepali Times, the homes were built by masons from Kathmandu and Thapagaun was one of the first villages in the hills to receive piped water.

It was pretty crushing to see these homes crumbling and slowly falling apart. Comparison is never a good thing but properties like the ones we saw in Thapagaun Muga would be ‘listed’ buildings in the UK (Grade 1, Grade 2 properties). I only wish the families that trace their roots back to Muga and these beautiful homes would do more to beautify their properties. Of course easier said than done…

Former PM Surya Bahadur Thapa’s house in Muga was apparently beyond comparison. It was a forty-room property that was sadly set on fire by the Maoists in 2004. Today, only ruins remain of the heritage property. Whilst we didn’t make it to the former PM’s house, we did see a couple of Thapagaun homes and they were stunning. I couldn’t help but wonder how the homes were lit in the evening back in the days… oil lamps and candles? Also, how many remain today?

With Seetashma Thapa. My brief chat with Seetashma will be on Facebook from 30th July, 2023.

History is complex. The deeper we dig, the more likely we are to be faced with uncomfortable truths. It’s important to acknowledge, reflect and pass information forward; to make a sound argument or judgement depending on where you are operating from. The history that the Thapagaun homes carry should also be written about, archived and presented for curious minds. It would be incredible to see atleast one of these heritage properties renovated in the near future.

Below are some photos of the late PM Surya Bahadur Thapa’s house in Thapagaun Muga.

Abhaya Subba’s New Song ‘Baasa Ko Ghari’ Tackles The Child Marriage Issue

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The Laijaau Malai singer Abhaya Subba is back with a brand new song ‘Baasa ko Ghari’. The song and the music video focuses on the issue of child marriage and union before the age of marriage which happens to be twenty in Nepal. According to a news report from May 2023, 37% of girls in Nepal are married before the age of eighteen.

There have been discussions about lowering the age of marriage from twenty in the past. Law and Justice Minister Govinda Bandi said “One gets citizenship at 16 and voting rights at 18. So, waiting for up to 20 years to marry is not a standard.” This was reported in June, 2022. Whilst child marriage was outlawed in Nepal back in 1963, it still remains a problem to tackle across the country including the urban core.

Like the music video, I also believe that many people are slowly becoming more aware about the challenges of marrying young, whether it be financial or societal. Unfortunately, many seem to still be opting to get married early for various reasons. We have to also accept the fact that many young people, men and women in their teens are still eloping and getting married as they believe that is the only way they can be together. Unfortunately, this only kickstarts one of many problems as usually both parties are not financially independent to look after one another.

There definitely needs to be more discussion taking place about the legal age of marriage and for our society as a whole to challenge our views on having a boyfriend or girlfriend. Nepali society whether in Nepal or overseas still struggle to view dating and being in a relationship prior to marriage as normal practice and elders often rush couples to get married or go above and beyond to break up the relationship. On the other hand, many young people may believe that marriage will be a way out of their present situation.

Our hesitancy around relationships, live-in partnership and dating needs to be understood from the perspective of sex and how we view it. The possibility of sex taking place between two people ahead of marriage maybe one of the reasons why society continues to be uptight. Getting back to the topic, it’s important to allow children the space to develop and mature independently – and also, for us to educate them that one does not need to rush into everything in their first relationship. It’s important to grow together, even in a relationship.

The discussion and approach to tackling early marriages will vary widely. It’s important more now than ever to let young people be their own individual and have time to be a full adult. Letting them be individuals also means to challenge our own ideas about relationships and the idea of marriage in the first place.

The music video of Baasa ko Ghari which has been directed by Sumit Sharma features Elena Gurung and Poonam Rana. Elena has acted her part very well in this sorrowful track. The rockstar Abhaya is wearing a pretty unique ensemble in the video and if you were wondering what the inspiration behind it was then here’s what she shared on her social media:

“When I saw this vintage photo of a young Limbu lady perhaps taken almost a century ago, I wanted to recreate this outfit. This beautiful Limbu outfit is something I am extremely proud of.

BAASA KO GHARI is a song that women and all genders from all centuries and from all worlds can relate to. I wanted to make this connection through this outfit. A song can convey emotions that connects us through the passage of time. Additionally I wanted to make a connection with my clothes as well:

Several months ago, I met a young elegant stylist Aliz Ghimire. We immediately took to each other. I asked him if he could manage to recreate this outfit.

The attention to detail that this young person had was amazing. This is the result. I admit I am much much older than the young lady on the right and I kinda had a hard time finding the right accessories but we must all agree that the results were not so shoddy!

Kudos to Aliz. Make up by Nijan Rai accessories too. The silver necklace was lent to me by Elena Tika Gurung.”

Himalaya Jet Teases Promo UK To Nepal Return Fares From £499

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Himalaya Jet, a UK based airline announced that it will offer direct flights to Nepal from the UK, France and Germany starting this Dashain with promotional fares starting from £499 return. The Instagram post shared on July 5 also added “Booking Opening Soon”. Well, it certainly looks like many are waiting for more news as £499 seems too good to be true, that too in October!

News of Himalaya Jet created waves several months ago after the airline shared ambitious plans to connect Nepal to the world with its fleet of 18 wide-body aircrafts. The airline announced operations to start from Q3 back in May with two wide-body aircrafts! On that timeline, we’re rapidly approaching Q3 – so it’s a strong waiting game to see if these promo offers and direct-link to Nepal will materialise. Here’s to hoping that this all happens. After all, the team behind Himalaya Jet seem to be busy meeting various groups and key players in the aviation world, including Boeing! I wonder if it will be a Boeing 787 connecting London to Kathmandu.

By the end of its three-year plan, the airlines hopes to have eighteen aircraft in its fleet consisting of new and leased aircrafts. After Europe, the airline has plans to connect Nepal to Australia and USA. Well the news of this British premium long-haul carrier is certainly exciting! With September, Dashain and tourist season around the corner, everyone’s eagerly awaiting more news from the airline company. Let’s hope the £499 return promo fares boost tourist arrivals and help connect Nepalis.

Dorje’s Resort and Spa in Pokhara

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Pokhara was a great idea, especially after five years! The city of lakes has grown; there’s more of everything. Some things are bigger, newer and better like the Pokhara International Airport. Alongside the growth of Lakeside and the many new spots next to Phewa Taal, there are also a number of new properties. I got to stay at the recently launched Dorje’s Resort and Spa in Sedi, just few minutes away from Lakeside and here’s the lowdown.

The luxury property rests on a hill in Sedi that offers stunning views of Phewa Taal! If I’m not wrong, all twenty rooms (and suites) offer a glorious view of the lake. Dorje’s Resort and Spa may come equipped with a multi-tiered swimming pool, poolside bar, spa facilities and a separate bar and restaurant but it still feels cosy. It maybe the twinkling lights from around the lake that makes you feel like you’re near the action but a good distance away.

Dorje dai, the leading person behind the resort has quite the story to tell! After thirty plus years in hospitality and leading two popular dining experiences, Moondance and Dorje’s Bar & Grill in Pokhara, he is doing something new in the form of Dorje’s Resort and Spa. Unsurprisingly, it seems like dai is a natural with resorts too!

I especially liked the use of stones across the entire resort. To me, that feels very Pokhara and also reminds me of my younger years at the British Gurkhas Pokhara Camp. The bathrooms are a marvel! It’s so very well done. I love swimming pools and Dorje’s has an amazing pool that splits across few levels. The poolside bar and ‘hanging deck’ is quite a nice spot too! As the resort is still going through a soft opening phase, the spa facilities are not 100% yet. So if you are making a booking anytime soon, do bear that in mind.

With the Annapurna Cable Car a few blocks away, a morning cable car ride up to Sarangkot is highly recommended! Enjoy tea up in the cooler air or maybe even see the Annapurna ranges (weather and season permitting) before getting the cable back down or simply enjoy the downhill hike. The resort is only few minutes drive from the hustle and bustle of Lakeside or the more swanky drinking and eating spots of Pame!

Get in touch with the team at Dorje’s Resort & Spa to plan your trip and hopefully you get to meet Dorje dai and hear about how this all started.

Disclaimer: This is a promotional post written with the intent to advertise Dorje’s Resort & Spa. #Promo #Ads  

Sahi Search – Helping Nepalis Find Jobs and Rooms in the UK

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Are you moving to the UK from Nepal? Are you already living in the UK and looking for jobs, rooms or business services with a focus on Nepali community? Well, look no further because Sahi Search is here! This is a place where “Je khojincha majjjjaaa le bhetincha”.

Sahi Search is your answer to finding localised Nepali services in the UK. With the Nepali population in the UK growing rapidly, it has become more apparent that new arrivals need signposting to places to find rooms (and houses to rent), to find part-time jobs and see what businesses and community groups are nearby. After all, network and society is one of the most important things when moving to a new country! Sahi Search aims to provide the solutions.

If you’re on a hunt for people power or are thinking of renting the spare bedroom out then Sahi Search is the place to list your services. The listing is completely free, so don’t think – just list right away! All it takes is an easy sign-up to start listing. The freshly launched website is already split into Businesses, Rooms for Rent and Jobs section and there will be more exciting features launched very soon!

Get searching away – Sahi Search!

Lucky Ali Leads The LOUD OUT Music Festival Lineup in UK!

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The Ek Pal Ka Jeena singer LUCKY ALI will be belting his all-time hits in just over a month at the LOUD OUT music festival on Saturday, 2nd September! The music fest by Debbre Events LTD will take place once again at the Rushmoor Arena in Aldershot. Tickets are already on sale and have been steadily increasing from a cool £28 to the current price of £38!

Alongside Lucky Ali is the much loved Bipul Chettri & The Travelling Band, rapper VTEN, singer Brijesh Shrestha, the Hawa Jastai singer John Chamling Rai and BHAKTA Band and Prazna from the UK. The event organizers are excited to once again bring music lovers from across the country to the Rushmoor Arena! From Hindi, Nepali to possibly English – LOUD OUT is set to be a celebration of South Asian music. Debbre Event’s previously organised a concert with Sushant KC and 1974 AD at the Rushmoor Arena.

New poster with John Chamling Rai – coming asap!

What a mix of music, genre’s, people and ages there will be! I am ecstatic and cannot wait to host the event alongside Sirjana Gurung. Make sure you plan your day, or weekend, buy your tickets, book time off and bring yourself and friends to have an incredible musical weekend!

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To get us all prepped up for LOUD OUT – here’s some of my fave tracks from these musicians!